Handling Exceptions That Aren’t Yours: The Trap of Emotional Over-Responsibility
Handling exceptions that aren't yours can lead to system overload due to emotional over-responsibility. This pattern creates a distorted role assignment, where you assume responsibility for others' instability without validation. It's essential to distinguish between support and absorption, as absorption erodes system integrity. Recognize that capability is not obligation and that constant emotional processing can lead to emotional fatigue and system overload. To avoid this, ask whose responsibility is this and focus on maintaining system integrity.